Saturday, August 1, 2009

bored...




bosan seh nari.....kluar g geylang tad then to toa payoh...
went to check out elfi's baju kurung and his kakak's 2.....still
can't decide on d colour 4 dis year...hubby wanted gold but fiqa wanted
blue....me?undecided...nt in d mood though...juz can't understand kakak nowadays...
throwing tantrums every single minutes....she's been like dis sejak ada adk..
igt da ada adk,will get better..mayb she's jealous..i don noe...can't seem
2 handle her...i still feel guilty bout beating her juz nw...dia masih merajuk ngan me.
told me dat nobody loved her and dat she's goin to nenek na's house,doesn't wan to stay wif me anymore..
how do i make her understand dat i do love her...i noe i've been spending more time wif adk
but i do make time 4 her too..can't blame her though...3 yrs aru dpt adk...
mayb 2morrow lps dia cool down,i'll talk to her again...mummy luv u kakak....

3 comments:

  1. na, this is normal for kakak to be like this. kalau aku ade adik pun i will think that mummy dah tk syg aku cus lack of time spend together. she needs your attention bab tu....

    well, afterall, she loves you too babe!

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  2. nana,
    Fiqa is still young...
    she is a sweet little angel that knows nothing much .... she needs guidance ....
    I know how you feel when she throw tantrums but that is how she let go of her feelings...
    its normal for a kids to behave that way....
    Just remember, every single words or action that comes from her is her expression / feelings... you must not ignore that
    Once you realize, it may be too late for you to regret.....
    Ingat: Anak adalah anugerah dari ALLAH yang tiada nilainya... kau di berikan amanah untuk mendidik and membesarkannya dengan sempurna... jagalah kedua permata hatimu dgn sebaik mungkin.
    Kuatkan semangatmu dan tabahkan dirimu dalam menempuh kehidupan ini...

    ALLAH is there with you....
    ALLAH protects you my dear sister.....Amin.

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  3. thx 4 both of ur advice...will keep dat in mind....

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